Grief & Loss
Have you experienced loss?
Join a facilitated group session for children or adults.
Have you experienced loss?
Oceans Grief and Loss programme is a peer support programme developed to support people of all ages. We have a children's programme that runs for an hour a week over eight weeks; a teenage programme that uses six 80-minute sessions; and a programme to support to adults over six weeks with two-hour sessions.
Participants learn to talk about their experience of grief and they learn they are not the only ones experiencing these emotions. Our programme facilitates a process in which people share with each other in a supportive environment helpful ways to live with their losses.
Groups are made up of no more than six people and are supported through the programme by two trained and caring facilitators.
What is Oceans?
Grief & Loss Peer Support
OCEANS is a Grief and Loss Programme
It provides an opportunity for people who are missing someone in their lives to:
- Share and learn from others experiencing a similar loss.
- Experience and learn from the programme activities developed to assist people to cope with loss and change in their lives.
- Be supported by caring and trained Facilitators who are experienced in delivering the OCEANS Programme.
- People experiencing the pain of loss or separation from someone they love.
Who is Oceans for?
- Those who have had someone significant in their life die. (eg. a parent, child, or spouse)
- Someone who has lost a really important friend through death or family separation.
- When you have lost someone you love but have never really mourned.
- A person who is living with a foster family and misses their birth parent/s.
- If you are missing someone in your family due to separation, divorce, or imprisonment.
The OCEANS Programme is based on the therapeutic model, the Continuing Bonds Model of Grief and Loss.
Feedback from Past Participants
(there are so many great comments but these are a summary):
"Not as angry and talks about his feelings"
"Super helpful - although he hasn't told me about it - his demeanour has changed"
"I am more happy"
"I am a bit more confident and happy"
"Has been good to talk to someone outside the situation"
"Realising there are more people in her situation"
"I feel more open and honest"
"I feel braver"
"Can now talk about mum and dad not being together and is so much happier and braver"
"We had fun and it helps"
"It has been awesome and we have noticed big changes"
"Felt able to be real, share and be safe"
Oceans Grief and Loss Course Outline
Our programme follows a general pattern that you will find with most Grief and Loss peer support programmes. We use a Solution Focused approach that amplifies the strengths and coping skills that each member brings to the group. We take time in the early sessions to connect with each other, build trust within the group and discuss the individual best hopes from being part of the group. We talk about our feelings, in particular, the emotions associated with grief and helpful ways to live with our loss/es. This builds up to the point of telling our story of loss and the memories related to their missing person. After this, we talk about change and the strengths we possess to live with the changes associated with our grief and the people and things around us that will support us in the future.
This is a well-supported journey that we can celebrate at the end to have been part of each other's life and story.
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Kia ora, I'm Matt Cameron
Teacher, Counsellor, Tennis Coach and Referee and Oceans Coordinator
Matt was born in Morrinsville (Waikato, NZ) and first studied electrical engineering. He decided he wanted to work with people so after a year serving as a youth worker, he then completed a degree at Bible College in Auckland, majoring in Pastoral Care (BCNZ – now Laidlaw). At the conclusion of his degree, he went to Teachers College and trained as a primary teacher. Matt moved to Timaru in 1997 and has taught full-time in various primary schools for 13 years. During that time, he married and together with his wife they had two boys. While he was teaching his desire to serve people led him to complete a Counselling Diploma (and be a better husband). Matt had a small break from full-time teaching to do a mixture of relief teaching, counselling, tennis coaching, administration and refereeing. After five years working as a secondary school teacher, along with coordinating the Oceans grief and loss programme, Matt is once again enjoying work as a part-time primary school teacher. With his Christian faith leading him and following his passions, it is a nice fit for what he does for Anglican Care. He has been working for Anglican Care since 2007 and coordinating the Oceans programme since 2012.